Joint
Big step — and an exciting one! Whether it's for love, logistics, or splitting that $3,000 rent, cohabiting is a whole new chapter. Before you order matching mugs and argue over where the air fryer goes, here are five must-have conversations to smooth the transition and strengthen your bond:
How Will We Handle Money
Finances are one of the top stressors for couples. Will you split everything 50/50? Use a shared budget? What about personal spending and savings?
Talk openly about salaries, debt, spending habits, and expectations. Then set up tools to manage it — like Joint's shared finance tracker and bill splitter.
What Does "Clean" Mean to You
One person's "clean" is another's "barely touched." Before resentment builds, discuss what daily and weekly chores look like, what your cleanliness standards are, and how much clutter you can tolerate.
Use a shared chore list to make things fair and fight-free.
Alone Time vs. Together Time
Living together doesn't mean being together 24/7. Some people recharge solo, while others crave constant connection.
Figure out your balance. Can one person work in silence while the other binge-watches reality TV in the same room?
How Will We Handle Conflict
Every couple fights — but how you fight matters. Talk about your communication styles, how you prefer to cool off, and what helps you feel heard.
Setting relationship goals or learning each other's love language (hint: Joint has tools for that) can make tough talks easier.
What Are Our Boundaries and Deal Breakers
Talk about expectations around guests staying over, sharing passwords, and bedroom routines. Set these early so no one feels blindsided or uncomfortable.
You're building a life together — but you're still two people. Boundaries are healthy.
Final Thought
Moving in is more than sharing a space — it's sharing a life. The more you communicate upfront, the better you set yourselves up to thrive.